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		<title>Comment on The most obscene &#8220;guilt mailing&#8221; I&#8217;ve ever seen by Maureen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maureen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 18:57:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for the information provided here.  I have known about St. Joseph&#039;s since visiting the school in 1995.  At the time of my visit I wondered about the lack of Native American adults involved with the program, other than the artists who were selling things through the museum.  I have never contributed any money to the organization, choosing instead to donate to Ogala Lakota College in hopes of providing Native American families, not just children, with the means to improve their lives and preserve their culture.  I have been dismayed at the tactics used by St. Joseph and found my way here today because of the mailing I received yesterday, probably the same one that Anthony received.  I also received the mailing that Jonathan received last fall.   I am thankful to everyone who has posted here--this conversation has helped me understand more about St Joseph&#039;s Indian School.  I plan to return the items I received and ask them to stop sending me stuff. I&#039;ll let you know if it works.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for the information provided here.  I have known about St. Joseph&#8217;s since visiting the school in 1995.  At the time of my visit I wondered about the lack of Native American adults involved with the program, other than the artists who were selling things through the museum.  I have never contributed any money to the organization, choosing instead to donate to Ogala Lakota College in hopes of providing Native American families, not just children, with the means to improve their lives and preserve their culture.  I have been dismayed at the tactics used by St. Joseph and found my way here today because of the mailing I received yesterday, probably the same one that Anthony received.  I also received the mailing that Jonathan received last fall.   I am thankful to everyone who has posted here&#8211;this conversation has helped me understand more about St Joseph&#8217;s Indian School.  I plan to return the items I received and ask them to stop sending me stuff. I&#8217;ll let you know if it works.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Bill Groome, owner of Madhatter Magic Shop, lies to me about a product and then refuses to refund my money by jik</title>
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		<dc:creator>jik</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 01:40:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Angie!

It&#039;s not terribly surprising to see that the people who work for Bill treat customers the same way he does.

Oh, wait, did you forget to mention that you work for him?  Nice.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Angie!</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not terribly surprising to see that the people who work for Bill treat customers the same way he does.</p>
<p>Oh, wait, did you forget to mention that you work for him?  Nice.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Bill Groome, owner of Madhatter Magic Shop, lies to me about a product and then refuses to refund my money by Angela</title>
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		<dc:creator>Angela</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 01:34:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Seems like a lot of fuss over nothing. Looking over your blog, looks like you fight with a lot of people. Grow up!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Seems like a lot of fuss over nothing. Looking over your blog, looks like you fight with a lot of people. Grow up!</p>
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		<title>Comment on PayFlex: an FSA administrator actually does something right by jik</title>
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		<dc:creator>jik</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 01:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Will: I just successfully submitted a PDF of a receipt through their Web site.  I&#039;ve never had trouble submitting a PDF.  I don&#039;t know why their Web site rejects your PDFs as being invalid, but I think you might have better luck finding out by calling them on the phone and asking for their help rather than posting comments on blogs about it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Will: I just successfully submitted a PDF of a receipt through their Web site.  I&#8217;ve never had trouble submitting a PDF.  I don&#8217;t know why their Web site rejects your PDFs as being invalid, but I think you might have better luck finding out by calling them on the phone and asking for their help rather than posting comments on blogs about it.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Fraudulent charity warning: Macular Degeneration Association / American Medical Research Organization by Jay</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 17:08:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I thought the letter I received from MDA to be amateurish; The red flag to me was the lack of any specifics of how MDA is helping people.  I also thought that having an umbrella organization (American Medical Research Organization) appeared strange.  I did a search - your link popped up and I read your posting.  I visited their website and noticed the &quot;parkinson&quot; (HTML) tags on the website (how sloppy - that tells me they copied another wedsites&#039; coding and then only half way modified it). Similar to their letter, there was a real lack of information there.  I then read the responses to your posting.  That confirmed all I needed to know about MDA and the Parkinson&#039;s Research Foundation.  I wonder how many other &quot;foundations&quot; there are that are linked to these guys.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I thought the letter I received from MDA to be amateurish; The red flag to me was the lack of any specifics of how MDA is helping people.  I also thought that having an umbrella organization (American Medical Research Organization) appeared strange.  I did a search &#8211; your link popped up and I read your posting.  I visited their website and noticed the &#8220;parkinson&#8221; (HTML) tags on the website (how sloppy &#8211; that tells me they copied another wedsites&#8217; coding and then only half way modified it). Similar to their letter, there was a real lack of information there.  I then read the responses to your posting.  That confirmed all I needed to know about MDA and the Parkinson&#8217;s Research Foundation.  I wonder how many other &#8220;foundations&#8221; there are that are linked to these guys.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The most obscene &#8220;guilt mailing&#8221; I&#8217;ve ever seen by Anthony-oops</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anthony-oops</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 20:38:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was wondering how they had my address and everything.

 Also why and how they could afford to send out such things as NWbiker also wonders.

 I do not like things sent to me in the mail and generally put other stuff in the envelopes and send them on their way (if postage is paid) (sometimes other coupons sometimes shredded paper. Hey I get tired of people sending me paper that I have to throw away. It is like someone is handing it to me saying &quot;get rid of that--OK&quot;
  LOL---relax though people-do what you will--I am sorry for the people that get &quot;duped&quot; if that is the way you feel.  
 We are all here for such a short time---Try spreading a smile or two instead of smart &quot;ss comments, trying to prove you are smarter than each other.
We should all be nicer to one another.
 Take care and have a great week!!!
                                                  Anthony</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was wondering how they had my address and everything.</p>
<p> Also why and how they could afford to send out such things as NWbiker also wonders.</p>
<p> I do not like things sent to me in the mail and generally put other stuff in the envelopes and send them on their way (if postage is paid) (sometimes other coupons sometimes shredded paper. Hey I get tired of people sending me paper that I have to throw away. It is like someone is handing it to me saying &#8220;get rid of that&#8211;OK&#8221;<br />
  LOL&#8212;relax though people-do what you will&#8211;I am sorry for the people that get &#8220;duped&#8221; if that is the way you feel.<br />
 We are all here for such a short time&#8212;Try spreading a smile or two instead of smart &#8220;ss comments, trying to prove you are smarter than each other.<br />
We should all be nicer to one another.<br />
 Take care and have a great week!!!<br />
                                                  Anthony</p>
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		<title>Comment on The most obscene &#8220;guilt mailing&#8221; I&#8217;ve ever seen by Anthony</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anthony</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 20:32:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am by no means a saint and I am here because I received a &quot;package&quot; and thanking me for my contribution.

  I was wondering how they &quot;had&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am by no means a saint and I am here because I received a &#8220;package&#8221; and thanking me for my contribution.</p>
<p>  I was wondering how they &#8220;had&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Comment on The most obscene &#8220;guilt mailing&#8221; I&#8217;ve ever seen by NorthwestBiker</title>
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		<dc:creator>NorthwestBiker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 05:07:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, hasn&#039;t this been entertaining!  I received an unsolicited mailing from St. Joseph&#039;s today and decided to do a bit of web research.  I concur that it is a bit unnerving to receive such a full package of goods as a solicitation for charitable contribution: my mailing included a small &#039;dreamcatcher&#039;, mailing labels, notepad and other trinkets.  I can&#039;t help but wonder how an alleged charity can afford such apparently random &#039;cold call&#039; mailings.  

I also note that the ad hominem attacks in this thread have been by defenders of St. Joseph&#039;s against those who have raised legitimate concerns about the nature of this organization.  Gee, that speaks well for St. Joseph&#039;s!  

In sum, I will continue to direct my family&#039;s charitable giving to organizations whose legitimacy is not in question.  There&#039;s plenty of need to &#039;go around&#039;, so if you want to give to St. Joseph&#039;s, knock yourself out.  It smells funny enough to me that I don&#039;t feel an overwhelming need to go out on a limb here.  

And for God&#039;s sake, people, you can disagree without calling each other names.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, hasn&#8217;t this been entertaining!  I received an unsolicited mailing from St. Joseph&#8217;s today and decided to do a bit of web research.  I concur that it is a bit unnerving to receive such a full package of goods as a solicitation for charitable contribution: my mailing included a small &#8216;dreamcatcher&#8217;, mailing labels, notepad and other trinkets.  I can&#8217;t help but wonder how an alleged charity can afford such apparently random &#8216;cold call&#8217; mailings.  </p>
<p>I also note that the ad hominem attacks in this thread have been by defenders of St. Joseph&#8217;s against those who have raised legitimate concerns about the nature of this organization.  Gee, that speaks well for St. Joseph&#8217;s!  </p>
<p>In sum, I will continue to direct my family&#8217;s charitable giving to organizations whose legitimacy is not in question.  There&#8217;s plenty of need to &#8216;go around&#8217;, so if you want to give to St. Joseph&#8217;s, knock yourself out.  It smells funny enough to me that I don&#8217;t feel an overwhelming need to go out on a limb here.  </p>
<p>And for God&#8217;s sake, people, you can disagree without calling each other names.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The most obscene &#8220;guilt mailing&#8221; I&#8217;ve ever seen by jik</title>
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		<dc:creator>jik</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 21:40:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just love people who jump to conclusions without knowing anything at all about what they are saying.

For your information, my wife and I give thousands of dollars to charity every year.  We reserve our limited charitable funds for organizations which have a history of doing work we respect in an open, transparent fashion; of successfully using the vast majority of the donations they receive for their work rather than for overhead; and of allowing independent third parties to audit their finances to confirm that they are doing so.  These are the metrics which I believe any responsible person should use when deciding whether to donate to a particular charity.

My wife and I do many hours of volunteer work for local charities every year.

As for whether the director of SJIS is &quot;ten times the adult&quot; I am, I would point out that he lied about releasing his organization&#039;s financial records to independent third parties for review, and he lied about giving me the answers to the questions directed at him which I posted above.  He sent me private email on January 14, in which he said, &quot;I saw you posted a response to my response on your blog. I do have answers for you and will post them as quickly as I am able; however, it may be tomorrow.&quot;  It is now almost two months later; do you see the answers he promised?  Using lies to defend his organization against legitimate criticism does not seem particularly adult to me.

My family does not have an X-Box or any other game console.  Neither I nor my wife drinks or smokes.  I have been faithful to my wife since the day I met her almost 20 years ago.  As a parent of five young children, I rarely have the time or energy to have a &quot;good night on the town,&quot; and I would imagine that the seven of us would have a tough time fitting in my parents&#039; basement.

In short, you&#039;re an idiot.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just love people who jump to conclusions without knowing anything at all about what they are saying.</p>
<p>For your information, my wife and I give thousands of dollars to charity every year.  We reserve our limited charitable funds for organizations which have a history of doing work we respect in an open, transparent fashion; of successfully using the vast majority of the donations they receive for their work rather than for overhead; and of allowing independent third parties to audit their finances to confirm that they are doing so.  These are the metrics which I believe any responsible person should use when deciding whether to donate to a particular charity.</p>
<p>My wife and I do many hours of volunteer work for local charities every year.</p>
<p>As for whether the director of SJIS is &#8220;ten times the adult&#8221; I am, I would point out that he lied about releasing his organization&#8217;s financial records to independent third parties for review, and he lied about giving me the answers to the questions directed at him which I posted above.  He sent me private email on January 14, in which he said, &#8220;I saw you posted a response to my response on your blog. I do have answers for you and will post them as quickly as I am able; however, it may be tomorrow.&#8221;  It is now almost two months later; do you see the answers he promised?  Using lies to defend his organization against legitimate criticism does not seem particularly adult to me.</p>
<p>My family does not have an X-Box or any other game console.  Neither I nor my wife drinks or smokes.  I have been faithful to my wife since the day I met her almost 20 years ago.  As a parent of five young children, I rarely have the time or energy to have a &#8220;good night on the town,&#8221; and I would imagine that the seven of us would have a tough time fitting in my parents&#8217; basement.</p>
<p>In short, you&#8217;re an idiot.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The most obscene &#8220;guilt mailing&#8221; I&#8217;ve ever seen by Hankmeister</title>
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		<dc:creator>Hankmeister</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 21:25:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>mark, your mother will be generously blessed even if the money she gives isn&#039;t entirely used for its intended purposes. I bet your the kind to refuse to give money to a homeless person or the street &quot;bum&quot; because you fear they might blow it on alcohol. If you&#039;re really that concerned about crooked charities and they people they are alleged to serve, why don&#039;t you start your own charity? I mean, after all, you seem awfully concerned about what other people are doing wrong, why don&#039;t you and others of your &quot;concerned&quot; mindset show the rest of us how it should be done? Not up to it yourself, then quit your self-righteous complaining!

Hey, Jonathan, what are you doing to help the plight of Native American children? Sounds like you&#039;re the kind of self-righteous, fingerpointing jerk who would rather blindly criticize those who are trying to help in the most difficult of situations than doing anything yourself to help those you cleverly feign concern about. We call anti-Christian, secular bigots like you bleeding heart tightwads because all you typically do is complain about what others are doing in the name of their faith while you do nothing in the name of your faith ... except complain and point ignorant fingers of judgement. At least the director of SJIS sounds ten times the adult you do so when you get finished playing with your Tonka toys in the sandbox how about illuminating the rest us as to what you do with the thousands of dollars (like our family does each and every year) otherwise intelligent, middle-class American like you must be giving to help Native American children,  Central American children or South American children have a better life that they otherwise wouldn&#039;t have because of YOUR generosity ... or do you generally blow your loose cash on the latest X-Box releases, smokes, drink, loose women, or having a good night on the town? Or do you prefer to blow it on redecorating your mother&#039;s basement to make your sweating over a keyboard a little easier?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>mark, your mother will be generously blessed even if the money she gives isn&#8217;t entirely used for its intended purposes. I bet your the kind to refuse to give money to a homeless person or the street &#8220;bum&#8221; because you fear they might blow it on alcohol. If you&#8217;re really that concerned about crooked charities and they people they are alleged to serve, why don&#8217;t you start your own charity? I mean, after all, you seem awfully concerned about what other people are doing wrong, why don&#8217;t you and others of your &#8220;concerned&#8221; mindset show the rest of us how it should be done? Not up to it yourself, then quit your self-righteous complaining!</p>
<p>Hey, Jonathan, what are you doing to help the plight of Native American children? Sounds like you&#8217;re the kind of self-righteous, fingerpointing jerk who would rather blindly criticize those who are trying to help in the most difficult of situations than doing anything yourself to help those you cleverly feign concern about. We call anti-Christian, secular bigots like you bleeding heart tightwads because all you typically do is complain about what others are doing in the name of their faith while you do nothing in the name of your faith &#8230; except complain and point ignorant fingers of judgement. At least the director of SJIS sounds ten times the adult you do so when you get finished playing with your Tonka toys in the sandbox how about illuminating the rest us as to what you do with the thousands of dollars (like our family does each and every year) otherwise intelligent, middle-class American like you must be giving to help Native American children,  Central American children or South American children have a better life that they otherwise wouldn&#8217;t have because of YOUR generosity &#8230; or do you generally blow your loose cash on the latest X-Box releases, smokes, drink, loose women, or having a good night on the town? Or do you prefer to blow it on redecorating your mother&#8217;s basement to make your sweating over a keyboard a little easier?</p>
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